What s Behind The Mind Set Of Men And Women Who Cheat.

Around 10% of married women will jump the fence for no definitive reason, men's desire to cheat can often be attributed to the fact that they are biologically polygamous. Regardless of the state of personal matters at home, vanity or insecurity issues have nothing to do with why many men and women cheat. We can draw the comparison with someone who is dependant on substances like alcohol or drugs where there is a dependency issue that requires a decision whether to cross the line or not. For some of us, it simply comes down to biology.

Thankfully, not all of us are destined to cheat and lead double lives. There isn't usually a particular reason that sends us into the arms of another, yet it's the gradual build up of seemingly insignificant complacencies that cause the bubble to burst.

Commitment, marriage, joint financial arrangements and loss of self identity can all lead to complacency. When a couple buries themselves in a stressful environment, they forget about each other. A pattern of self survival becomes evident and the once cherished union becomes two different worlds.

Relationships that lack maintenance and communication are prime candidates for infidelity. When women stop receiving special attention from their partner, it's difficult for her to be all perky and sexy when her self confidence is shot. Once a relationship reaches this declining level the sex usually declines as well and men will often seek a new sex partner blaming his partners low sex drive as opposed to the reasons that caused the relationship to break down in the first place.

For some men though, nothing is ever enough to keep them loyal, with one of the respondents offering this thought. "Even the best dish becomes boring if you have it every day"

Both genders cheat poker online, but it's how you handle being cheated on that matters. Most people will fly into an angry rage with the thought of revenge ringing loudly. Another respondent tells us she exacted revenge on her cheating boyfriend using an unconventional and CLEVER approach by calling an abroad online dating recorded message service using his mobile phone running up a $6000 bill - ouch.

People cheat because they have no real concept of the importance of love. Their main focus in life is indulging in core base like animal pleasure, becoming increasingly immoral, overwrought and lose touch with the power to stand by the deep conceptions of the soul.